Forced marriage: the warning signs to watch out for
Forced marriage is a hidden crime so the clues it’s happening are usually so subtle they can be missed.
This is because, more often than not, victims of forced marriage are subjected to emotional pressure, which makes it very difficult to spot. Read our overview on the coercive and abusive tactics used when forcing victims into a marriage.
Those about to be forced into marriage often find it difficult to ask for help or talk about what’s happening to them because of the pressure they are experiencing.
Warning signs to look out for may include:
Anyone facing a forced marriage may become depressed, anxious, worried, or withdrawn.
Evidence of self-harm, attempted suicide, social isolation, eating disorders or substance abuse.
Unexplained and extended absences from school, college, or work, poor performance, and low motivation.
A history of siblings leaving education early to marry.
Excessive and unreasonable parental restriction and control of movements. This includes being kept at home, o house arrest, by their family, being removed from education, or even taken and kept abroad.
Always being accompanied including to school, college, work, or doctor appointments.
Evidence of family disputes, domestic abuse, running away from home, or going missing.
No control over their own money.
A child talking about a family holiday they are worried about or sharing fears they’ll be taken out of education and taken abroad.
Suddenly going on holiday for no apparent reason or not returning from a visit to another country.
A surprise engagement to a stranger.
This isn’t an exhaustive list of warning signs and any person at risk of being forced to marry may react and show signs differently.
It’s important to note any uncharacteristic behaviours and raise concerns with professionals responsible for safeguarding children, young people, and vulnerable adults from abuse.
Don’t raise concerns directly with the family as there is risk this will put the person at greater risk of harm, including the parents immediately taking the person out of the country.
The Forced Marriage Unit offers support to any individual within the UK regardless of nationality. They also provide support and advice to professionals.
0207 008 0151: Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm
0207 008 1500: Global Response Centre (out of hours)
Email: FMU@fco.gov.uk
Contact us and schedule a call to speak to someone who has real lived experience of forced marriage.
Forced marriage is illegal in the UK and those found guilty of exerting physical, emotional or psychological pressure to marry will face the justice system.
Universal Truth is committed to stamping out this exploitative practice.